Wednesday, May 2, 2018

Boomer Travel: Crossing the Street in London

                                                             2018 (c) Sondra Singer


Now that we've covered basics like booking a trip overseas, packing, and prep, I wanted to get right into London, from which we just returned.  I'll be interspersing posts about getting around with posts about actual sites.

But, once landing, I think crossing the street is the FIRST thing to learn for an American, or frankly, anywhere that isn't British in origin!

I'll cover other forms of getting around later, but wanted to devote this post just to walking. You'll see why in a moment!

Crossing the Street in the U.S. 

 

We take some things for granted here in the U.S. such as which way to look when crossing the street. If we look. Too often now, we are looking at our phones instead of making sure no one is racing toward us. And in our area, we REALLY take this for granted, as it's a generally accepted practice for cars to stop for pedestrians crossing.

Except, often, drivers in my city are from out of state, or they hate pedestrians, or they just don't care. It's ALWAYS a good idea to look before crossing, even if the crosswalk icon says it's good to go.
We've had a lot of hit and runs in the past few years in my area. OK, done with the lecture!

They Drive on the Wrong Side of the Road!


                                                               2018 (c) Sondra Singer

When we first decided to go to London, we KNEW we wouldn't be renting a car there.

Why, you ask?


I am a good driver in the city that I know. Andy is a good driver on the open road in the U.S.  Put us in a strange city, and we both freak out, get lost, get confused by the Google Navigator app, in short, we hate driving in unknown cities. When we're in the city where I live, I drive. When we go on a road trip, he drives. When in a strange city, we try to always take public transportation or Uber. Or we walk. Otherwise, arguments ensue.

So, we knew up front that we would be dependent on others while in London. Especially because THEY DRIVE ON THE LEFT! 

How Did This Happen?


Andy read that driving on the left comes from JOUSTING! Yes, think Knights of the Round Table. Well, this turns out to be true and there is more. The truth does involve swords.
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BBC America did a very good article on how and why 2/3 of the world drives on the right, and 1/3 (British for the most part) drive on the left. Besides swords in England, there were wagons in America. And, don't forget to bring in the traditional English and French rivalry, which goes WAY back. Yes, the U.S. and most of the world followed the French. Go read the BBC article. You'll enjoy it. But, please come back here when you're finished! 😊

And, of course, both teams think we're correct in how we do it!

If you do travel to a country that drives on the left, BEWARE! Not only do you need to watch out for cars and motorcycles, but also bicycles!

Bicycles!


Along the Thames, at rush hour, we encountered a wide lane in which bicycles ride both directions, right next to the sidewalk!  This adds another layer of complexity to an already hazardous walk. You can't even get to the car traffic until you get through that. And, the bike riders don't seem to care that pedestrians are trying to cross. They just GO!  So, to avoid any bicycle vs. most-person-in-the-world collision, keep a watchful eye on those bicycles, if, indeed, you can see them, going almost as fast as the cars!

Wish I'd had the presence of mind to take a picture of them, but frankly, they moved too fast!

Cars!

 

Cars are a different story. London and vicinity has thankfully put friendly words at most crosswalks saying, "Look Left" or "Look Right." Thank goodness for that! I'm sure this is out of necessity, and trying to keep the other 2/3 of the world that doesn't drive like they do, from being run over. Even so, we still looked both ways, just to be sure!

                                                    (source: PXHere.com)

Walkways, Escalators, etc.

 

Well, I don't have definitive answers on this. It seemed as though each train station, escalator or hallway had its own flow. Just watch what others are doing. Keeps you on your toes!

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Some of the escalators are also VERY steep! I had to hold on and lean!

Conclusion 

 

Plan to walk a lot in London unless you have money to take Uber or cabs. We are able-bodied, so we do walk as much as possible. It's expensive to do most things in London. For us, it was more expensive than Paris last year. So, we save where we can; and walking, either from site to site or from train/bus to site is the most inexpensive way to go! I walked anywhere from 10,000 to over 13,000 steps each day we were there, according to my FitBit. I have no idea if that's accurate. I actually suspect it underestimates my steps! In any case, plan to walk. Take your favorite over the counter pain relievers with you! And, if you're like us, you'll be so tired at the end of each day that you'll sleep well on your hotel bed!

For more of my reflections on Boomers Traveling Cheaply, see my other posts.

In Service,

Sondra

Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Boomer Travel Confessions and Fundamentals, Part Two

Planning, Booking, and Packing - Whew!

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I thought it would be good to concentrate this post on some planning tips. Hope you find this useful and worth a bookmark for later! Please bear with me while we get through the mechanics. I promise more fun later, when we get into actual trips and observations.

Booking A Trip

Andy and I are not the kind of people who book a whole trip in advance, racing from one site to the next with no flexibility to rest or change plans based on what we learn along the way. We are not "If This is Tuesday, This Must Be Belgium" travelers (if you don't know the reference, look up the 1969 movie with Suzanne Pleshette and Ian McShane!). If you are, you'll find my blog too loosey-goosey, I think. One of my sisters, for instance, just came back from a completely planned 10 day trip, with a private guide. But, frankly, she can afford that, and doesn't mind the structure. I did that kind of trip once. Never again! 

Travel Agents

I know that travel agents still exist, and in 2014, the group I went with used an independent agency. Most of what she did for this bulky group was fantastic, and if you are traveling with a group of people to go independently or on a tour, this is a good way to offload at least some of the time it takes to book hotels, flights, and tours.  I've noticed when I've used agents, they tend to use Viator for tours, however, and I personally haven't had good experience with that company on two different occasions.

So, if it's just my boyfriend and me, I now prefer to book the elements myself, checking out different options for what they include, the reviews of the tour, when they leave in the morning (we are not early risers!), and where they start and end. Ultimately, your time and level of confidence in your own ability to book elements of a trip will determine what you do. Just remember, vacation is supposed to be FUN! So, if you're not smiling and can afford it, look for what you can do to offload some of your planning.

Remember, this blog is about saving money, and I always find I get better rates when I plan elements myself.

Online Third Party Agencies or Direct to Airline/Hotel (i.e. Kayak, Hotels.com, Travelocity, Orbitz, etc.)

I tend to look at several of these over a period of days or weeks to look for the best airline and/or hotel deal. However, I've heard and experienced that they insert 'cookies' and can incrementally raise the prices they show you (they know your computer unless you clear your cookies between searches - if you don't know how to do this, I'm sure there is another blog somewhere on that!), if you don't want to clear your cookies between searches, use more than one computer!  And, it's good to sign up for their pricing alerts, as well. Perhaps they'll offer a better deal if they don't hear from you for a while.

Sometimes, while multiple windows are open, I see a good rate on one of these third party sites for a particular airline. I'll also open a browser window and look at what the airline is selling that flight for. Sometimes, it's cheaper to just go direct to the airline or hotel. In fact, on our recent trip to London, the hotel actually preferred that we book direct, and guaranteed that we would not see a lower price. By booking direct, you save them fees and hassle. And, you can communicate with them directly with any questions about the area, transportation, etc.  I felt like I already knew our last host before we arrived! By the time we left, we both felt as though we had a new friend.

                                      Third Party Sites: Potential Problems to Watch For

Up until my most recent trip, I'd had excellent experience with third party sites. In fact, last year, when our initial Delta flight was cancelled due to weather issues all over the country, it appeared as though Hotwire took it upon itself to re-book us. Delta said it wasn't them, so they assumed it was Hotwire. Delta didn't want to book us again until the day we were to get back!  So, whoever did the re-booking, thank you!  We had to wait a few hours and we were re-booked on Air France from Delta, and that was a God-send. If it wasn't for Air France, we'd have missed our connections because, again, of weather delays.

Beware of the third party sites you choose, though. I never knew until I had a bad experience on our most current expedition.  This time we used CheapOAir.com, part of Fareportal, who also owns OneTravel.com. It's not just me, check reviews. They make the whole process more difficult, have lousy customer service, and charge you for things you wouldn't have to pay for through other entities. Personally, I'll never use them again.


Again, sometimes the best fares are direct through the airline. When you're looking at the listings, if it says it's one airline, but "operated by" another, check the fare for the actual airline that is operating the flight. Chances are, the flight will be cheaper, and you'll experience less hassle overall.

Reviews 

There are companies who pay people who haven't even used their services or products to put up good reviews. So, read the worst ones, not just the best ones, and look for the consistent stories. On Amazon, I look for the verified purchasers, hoping they are real. But this makes us all more responsible, I think.

In the end, however you decide to book your trip, REVIEW REVIEW REVIEW. I like to post reviews on TripAdvisor and Google primarily, but you might have your favs, as well. Help other travelers with your experience. Good reviews help those who treated you well, and warn other travelers about the bad actors.   Reviewing helps us all.  But don't just do it for spite. Before writing a negative review, please try to work things out with the company offline. You might be surprised that things get resolved to your satisfaction.

Insurance


I know that not everyone has had good experience with trip insurance, but as mentioned in my previous post, it saved my shirt in 2011, so I always get it now. Check www.InsureMyTrip.com to compare some rates, but also check the individual insurers' sites.  And, read the fine print. Different policies cover different aspects. For instance, if you want pre-existing medical conditions covered, you need to book it within a certain period of time after you book your flight, usually 2-4 weeks. And, if you want 'cancellation for any reason,' that's harder to find than it used to be, and more expensive.

Know Something About Where You're Going

Books and Audio Tours

I generally buy a Rick Steves book. It might be a small quick peek at sites, or it might be a more involved book. But for me, he has good explanations and tips. And, you can download his audio walks. I used that in Vienna and found it very helpful.  There are others, of course. But I suggest actually going to a bookstore and looking through what they have to find what resonates with you, rather than ordering online. Then read through it in advance, and make a top 10 list of the sites you for sure want to see. Some of them require booking well in advance. We found that out the hard way about the Eiffel Tower last year. The lines are long there, so without a skip the line kind of tour, generally booked well in advance, you'll spend a day there.  Ultimately, we like to stay flexible, so we don't book more than one or two things in advance.

Of course, there are also travel programs you can watch on PBS or YouTube. We watched YouTube videos teaching basic French phrases before we went to Paris, and watched several PBS/Create Network shows to get a feel for what to expect and what we might want to visit.


Check the official website for the place you're going

I generally do this anyway, but it was also a tip we picked up in a class. www.VisitLondon.com is the one for London. There are also sites for England overall. Same is probably true for other cities and countries. There could be discounts for what you want to do, events you can incorporate into your planning, etc. Here is the Visitors Guide for Los Angeles.

Discount and Skip the Line Cards

Some are worth it, some are not. In Paris, if you plan to visit museums, and sites like the Arc de Triomphe or Notre Dame, we found it of immense value. We purchased the Paris Museum Pass, as it covered what we wanted to see. There is also one called the Paris Pass, which covers more sites, so it all depends on how much you want to do in a day, counting the transportation. We saved money and also skipped a lot of lines. It doesn't help with the Eiffel Tower, but most other known sites and some you didn't know make it invaluable. A comparison of the two cards is here: www.archaeology-travel.com

The card for London expected you to see a LOT of sites each day for it to be worthwhile, so our hotel advised against it, and we agreed once we checked into it. Since most museums in London are already free and aren't that difficult to get into, it just wasn't worth it for us. If you have kids, it might be a different story. Every city is different.  You can order in advance in most cases, or find out the best place to pick it up upon arrival. Generally, you can get them at the airport.

Hotels

I admit, we go a lot by gut when we look at hotels online. We try to save money and look for a bit of charm, so try to stay away from the chains. We look at Airbnb, and several travel third party sites. We don't just look for cheap, but also for what they include, where they are, how far from transportation, and read a lot of reviews. We've done well so far. I find that not staying in the center of the city, but within easy train distance, works well for us, and gives us a bit more for the money than being in the center of the action.

Paris: We found a small hotel off the beaten track in an upscale residential area that doesn't even show up on the main Paris tourist map that you get, which offered breakfast for a charge. However, quickly, we found a wonderful Patisserie around the corner, so we saved by going there for pastries and sandwiches. The hotel was a nice walk to a couple of different Metro stations and bus stops, and not far from the best view of the Eiffel Tower, the Trocadero. And, the price per night was less than most others we looked at. Hotel Nicolo. We were attracted by the picture of their courtyard, which, frankly, was too cold to sit in, in the shade, in April! I'm sure there are others you can find using this strategy. If you don't need a pool, a gym, or to be in the center of the action, this strategy could work for you, too.  Also, book well in advance. As it is a small hotel, it sells out, and prices go up as you get closer to your departure/it fills.

London: Using the same strategy as Paris, we found a little hotel b&b called the Star Hotel B&B by doing online searches. It includes breakfast. The street was louder, but it, too, was not in a district shown on the typical city map, but easy to get to the city and to attractions. It had its own charm, and was recently remodeled. Like most European hotels, the rooms are small.

We looked at Airbnb, too, but noticed that many of the rooms we liked had comments about the hosts canceling on the visitors just days in advance of trips, so we didn't feel comfortable doing that in London. I don't know what's going on with Airbnb in London, but we also saw an article about unhappy hosts. So, until they figure that out, we will stay away from Airbnb in London.

Getting Ready To Go Out of the Country - Packing and More


Getting ready for a big trip is always interesting. My boyfriend and I are quite different in how we prepare.  I am a list-maker. I add to it, change it, share it with him, and start packing well in advance. I use the packing bags that remove air and therefore let you fit more into the suitcase. He, on the other hand, says he's going to start a week out or so, but generally packs in the last two days. He folds and rolls his clothing up in such a way that they don't crease and it all fits. I don't know how he does it. Between us, we generally, get everything packed! 

1. If you're flying overseas, obviously, remember your passport, and it should have, as I understand it, at least 6 months remaining before renewal. I'm no expert on that, so check for your individual circumstance.

2. Remember to bring your phone, computer, etc. cords, and at least adapters for the country you're visiting. Generally, unless you're plugging in your toothbrush or hair dryer, your electronics plugs should be set for 120-240 already, but check. If need be, bring a converter. There is a difference. Check with your hotel to see what might be needed. I bring a couple of adapters, a converter, and at least one power strip, as we have several items to plug in. You can find which plug to get on several online sites or go to a travel store.  I just found this site that looks good for distinguishing between plugs, here.

3. Phone Plan/Getting Around - I find that having my smartphone on these trips is invaluable for one reason...Google Maps!  Generally, the cheapest way to get around cities is with public transportation (more on that by city). If you want to get from Point A to Point B in a city like Paris or London, put your destination in Google Maps, and you'll generally get several options that include walking, trains, busses, or driving, with how long it should take to get there. Perfect!  In order to use this, however, you need to have a data plan for your phone or tablet.  Both AT&T and Verizon have flat rate daily plans that allow you to use your phone exactly like you use it at home. This is what we both do. But it needs to be planned in advance. I've had problems on landing with AT&T, but Andy's Verizon plan works perfectly as soon as we arrive.

3. Medications - Don't forget to put these in your carry-on.

4. Spare Undies - When Air France lost my luggage last year, and I didn't pack spare clothes, my 92 year old mother was quick to reprimand me. Always pack a day or two worth of undies and spares in your carry-on!

5. Those gallon sized bags for carrying on liquids. I found recently, that they are much stricter overseas than they are here. We've carried bigger bags all over in the States, and even when we went to Paris, but in London, on our return, they made us throw things out if they didn't fit in THEIR bags. So, even if you think you have TSA Pre or something like it, that can get thrown out over there.

6. Xrays and Airport Security when you have Joint Replacement, etc.
Frankly, just plan to spend more time getting through security. My U.S. Representative was no help when I explained that we were delayed repeatedly when it's clear my boyfriend's knee replacement sets off the airport scanner. He just said to carry a card from the doctor. We tried that at first, but it seemed that it made things worse. I don't know if this is a training issue for the TSA or what. But we just explain it before going through the scanner, and they'll do what they do. They always frisk him, and delay him. If anyone has any ideas on how to get the TSA to understand that Boomers often have artificial joints that set off the equipment, please share what you've learned. We can't be the only ones who experience this.

When we traveled home from London was just days after the U.S., France, and England bombed Syria, so they were being more careful even than normal. You never know what might come up.

Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to give you as much as possible up front. You'll probably see some tips repeated later, but perhaps you'll want to bookmark this post for an overall plan. Hope so.

In Service,

Sondra



Tuesday, April 17, 2018

Boomer Travel Confessions and Fundamentals, Part One

Yellowstone National Park, (c) 2018 Sondra Singer

A Bit of Background 

Hello!  I hope you enjoy this journey and that it helps you to plan your trips.

I never traveled extensively when I was younger. I hitchhiked across the country once with my ex-husband when he was still my boyfriend, but that's another story for another time. When I was married to him for 22 years, my husband was only interested in the Caribbean. He was a sailor, and was not interested in visiting anywhere that didn't have an ocean. So I did learn some about Jamaica, Grand Cayman, the British Virgin Islands in the 1980's and 90's, some places along the coast of Mexico, as well as the West coast of Florida along the Intracoastal Waterway. But, by now, I'm sure a lot has changed. Since then, I've been to Costa Rica in the '90's (my first trip post divorce), South Africa in 2004 with about 60 storytellers on a cultural exchange, and a few scattered trips with friends to New Mexico, Utah, and Mexico.

My sales job was very stressful, but since I didn't always have the time to travel and didn't want to travel much alone, I kept most of my vacations to visiting my parents in Florida, so I could rest by the pool or the beach. I'd also been to the Grand Canyon and some National Parks in Utah. And, special interest trips to camps for music and arts regionally.

I'd always wanted to travel to great places in Europe. But, my ex-husband had no interest, and I didn't have friends who had that as a priority until recent years.

In 2011, I planned a cultural trip to Ireland to learn about the ancient spirituality there, organized by a friend. But a hurricane large enough to close Newark Airport, along with a travel agent who sold us bulk tickets without our knowledge (resulting in no airline wanting to help us get there once our original flight was canceled) killed that adventure. I don't know how we could have avoided the problem, as the travel agent wasn't being honest with us, but I can tell you some other things to avoid, and questions to ask. Fortunately, I had travel insurance that paid me back. For that reason I recommend never doing a big trip without it.

In 2014, right before I met my significant other, Andy, I went with some people on a whirlwind trip to London, Vienna, and Dubrovnik - none of them cities that I'd intended to visit, but it got me to Europe for the first time.  That is a story in itself, and perhaps I'll write a post about that trip and what not to do, even when desperate to travel, in this blog, at some point. But, here's a tip:

Beware With Whom You Travel

Don't travel with people who have different priorities and interests than you do, unless you've really thought it through!  Best to travel with people who have similar interests and expectations.  I like to engage with the places I travel, not just drive by, and I have interest in the arts and culture of the places I go. Then, there are the temperaments of the people you travel with. Best to travel with people you know well, and with whom you can communicate. Those are just some considerations when deciding with whom to travel on a self-guided trip. Or go with an organized group, where you can find those who are simpatico with you.

Context For This Blog

Now that I'm retired and in a committed relationship, my boyfriend and I are doing our best to get out there. He is still working, but flexible, as he's self-employed. We both have financial limitations, so look for bargain flights and hotels when we go long distances, and "glamp" when we can drive, typically to National Parks. Perhaps we can all learn together how to see great sites without losing our shirts!

"Travel," as Mark Twain said in Innocents Abroad, "is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime." With this I agree. Especially if one is always surrounded by people who look like them and think like them. Travel, even to areas of the U.S. that are unfamiliar and more diverse, could help this country's current divisions. But I digress.

This blog will encompass everything from preparations for a trip, to observations, to tips. I will talk about past trips, and then discuss new ones as they come up. We may have to save for a while to go back to Europe, but the next post will start with our trip to London in April of 2018, from which we just returned.

First, a bit more about us, and some information that could be valuable if you want to see America's natural wonders.

About Us

Andy and I are in our '60's. I've told you a bit about me. Andy had traveled a bit in the U.S., including Hawaii, and a bit in Mexico, but had always wanted to see more of the world and of this country. We met 4 years ago, and soon started traveling, first visiting relatives in different parts of the U.S., then spreading our wings. We've been to 6 National Parks since we met: Rocky Mountain National Park in Colorado, Saguaro in Tucson, AZ, Yosemite in California, Yellowstone and Grand Teton in Wyoming. We've also stayed relatively cheaply in Santa Fe, New Mexico.

I may retrace some of our steps and share some tips from those trips later on. But, here's the biggest tip for those of us older than 62.
  
National Parks Senior Pass

With the National Park Service Senior Pass (the price has since gone up, but still a bargain for seniors at $80 lifetime pass!) and senior discount for camping, this is the best way to see the country, especially if you love the outdoors, as we do. You must be 62 years or older, and a U.S. citizen or permanent resident. You don't have to hike or exert too much if you're unable to, you can drive through most, and some have shuttles than can take you to the major sites. We like to engage with the parks, so we walk or ride bikes as much as possible.   Go to www.nps.gov for more information.


Reserve camping well in advance for the summer, either online or on the phone. But even if you're just now planning, try looking at National Forests for campsites, as well. They, too, honor the pass, and some are nearby to National Parks. We also ask for discounts wherever we go. Membership in AARP and AAA can come in very handy for this. More on this later.

I never would have been a "camper" if not for Andy. My friends have been amazed that I can travel in a small trailer or pop-up camper, as I'm not known for roughing it! In the past, I'd say, give me a nice hotel or at least a motel room, or I'll stay home. But that's when I was working, making good money, and at one point, had an expense account!  Even then, though, there were restrictions. Groupon can be a help to get there now, if I really need a nice hotel fix, but since traveling with Andy, I haven't felt the need.

If you can relate to any of this, I hope you'll follow my blog and add your insights. Perhaps we can learn to travel thriftily together!

In service,

Sondra 


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